HOW TO NOT BE AWKWARD ARROUND NEW PEOPLE

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So, most of us will experience awkwardness when meeting new people, first date with a date, or invited to a new circle. So many people say that I'm a sociable person and it's easy to make new friends. so what is the way to be awkward in front of people? let's pay attention!



1. DONT OVERTHINKING



The point is you don't have to think about what you're going to say in front of people. Seriously, the conversation will run even when you just keep quiet. If you don't have material to talk about, it's okay not to think about it bro. When you can control your mind, then everything will go well and you will talk naturally.



Remember, don't think about what you're going to discuss, just let it flow. Be present, don't think about what people's first impression of you is!



 2. EXAGGERATING THE CONVERSATION



Exaggerating what other people are saying is one way to break the ice. What does that mean, the point is, we have to be able to  makes something funny or a jokes from what other people say, is like like twisting the intentions of that person hahahaha !!. So that the atmosphere will become liquid, and you will be considered a humorous person. The bonus is, because you are considered humorous, other people will be comfortable with you so that they will try to find the topic themselves, so we don't need to be confused about what to discuss.



3. SYNCHRONIZE WITH YOUR BODY


Ypur Speech and your body must be synchronous, make yourself as comfortable as possible, take space. If you sit on a chair, you can sit like this

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This will give you comfort and be more relaxed in starting a conversation. How cool is that if you can joke with a position like that hahaha!. Remember to relax and not stressed out is the most important thing to avoid awkwardness.



 4. COMFORTABLE WITH SITUATION



Whatever the situation is, quiet or crowded, you must stay relaxed and relaxed. Awkwardness is a form of discomfort for yourself and the environment. You will only be able to express yourself when you are comfortable with the situation and not pressured by social conditions. A. SOCIALLY CALIBRATED



You are not perfect and it is okay, you don't have to cover up the imperfections in you because it only makes you stressed and overthing, eventually you will feel awkward and uncomfortable with the situation.



That's all tips from me, if it's really useful you can share it with your friends. remember yes



 "People who are sociable and Easy to make friend are Live easier than people who are good looking"

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